My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. I love him more than anything, honestly. But things have been starting to go downhill and I don’t really know how to keep it from spiraling out of control. So here’s the story; his best friend is a girl. I’m not typically the jealous type, but she gets to me for some reason. He liked her a few years ago. She is absolutely gorgeous and she gets along with his friends because they are friends with her. A few nights ago, he had a kick back at his house, and I had a show so I had to go late. So when I got there both of them were pretty slaughtered. He hung out more with her than with me, and I felt like all of his friends would rather him be with her than me. So I had to leave around one thirty, after driving all of his friends home. But she didn’t want a ride home…she wanted to stay and sober up…so I left. The next day my boyfriend texted me at 2 in the afternoon so I asked what time she had left. He said four in the morning. So I got a little ticked. It’s not the first time she has stayed at his house super late, and it bothers me and he knows it. So I told him I understand she wanted to sober up, but I still don’t feel comfortable with what happened. He said that I had every right to be upset because if I had done the same thing…he would be pissed. Well that comment sent us on a lovely trip of arguing, and I tried to explain to him how I felt, and I only got attacked with the things I do that make him angry, and how I don’t understand their friendship. blah blah. I’m getting really frustrated with the situation. I don’t know how to talk to him about it, or what to do. I don’t want to break up, but I feel so threatened by her, any advice would be amazing.
Thank You.