My posts are depressing me…..among other things…?
Oct.15, 2011 in
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Ugh, well in looking at some of my posts, I feel like a total idiot for staying with my ex for 2.5 years. The last year was pretty sad as he traveled for work, but…I really think he could have reciprocated the communication, he was just a slug most of the time.
I guess my question is, for the ladies mostly…..when you look back on all that crap, do you wonder if he was even into you at all (even though he said he wanted marriage) or just that he was jerky and you are lucky to be out? I do not know what my deal is, I have been sad lately, not that I want to be with him…..I guess I am sad how he treated me during the relationship.
Sorry for the babble, just had to lean on someone….
October 20th, 2011 at 5:36 pm
you need to shut your skank hole
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October 26th, 2011 at 8:36 am
he was jerky and you are lucky to be out.
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October 31st, 2011 at 8:35 am
mainly WE DO IT BECAUSE THERE IS A LITTLE PART OF US AFRAID TO BE ON OUR OWN.EVEN THOUGH WE ARE NOT GETTING OUR DESIRED RESULTS WE KEEP HOPING UNTIL ONE DAY YOU JUST HAD ENOUGH AND CHOOSE TO MOVE FORWARD BEST OF LUCK
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November 4th, 2011 at 5:35 pm
no you arean idiot for wasting a day you got the hot actiuon down below why waste it on a fat turd
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November 8th, 2011 at 9:37 am
Don’t dwell on how badly you were treated. You are free to do what you want and make your life happy again. You wont become happy dwelling on the past
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November 11th, 2011 at 10:36 am
Oh, if ya ever need to lean on someone just to babble on or a shouder to cry on add me to your list of contacts as I now what you are going thru. So,”Chin up,shoulders back and head held up high and walk with a pride in your stride!! Oh yea GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS!!!!!!
My opinion and heartfelt understanding
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November 14th, 2011 at 3:38 am
I have felt that way before, after I got out of a 3 yr relationship that was not good for me. I think that it is normal to feel sad when you realize that the person you loved didn’t love you the same way, or treated you badly. Even if you don’t want him back, it can feel like you were tricked or just not aware of what was really going on. Not only have you lost him, you are also dealing with losing your understanding of that period of your life. I think that some sadness is totally understandable.
But the good news is that you ARE out of that relationship. So now you have more energy to focus on your own dreams, and to eventually find someone who will love you the way you should be loved. I wish you the best!
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November 16th, 2011 at 4:35 pm
I think its hard because when you are with someone for a substantial amount of time you have this dream of what you want that relationship to be. And when the relationship goes sour we feel like that is all we have left to hang on too. Therefore, making it hard to move on. He sounds like a jerk and he needed to be let go. I hope everything works out for ya. Smile
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November 18th, 2011 at 3:36 pm
Hind sight, of course, is 20/20. However, you probably learned something important to you, even thought it was sad and worrysome to you.
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