Is theres something wrong with me?
I’m 24 yrs old.me and my bf have been together for 2 yrs.he treats me like a princess.sex is great between us.he is the love of my life .hjowever since I went on birth control pills I c ant stand my bf.I have spottings all the time.I’m always sleepy$i just had a pregnancy test and it came out as negative.I don’t wanna do anything.I miss my bf soooo much but I just don’t wanna see him.he used to workout before but now he doesn’t and smokes weed.he never wanted me to blaze so I quit and now when I see him all high with no energy I get soooo turned off by him.I can’t stand this life.I don’t wanna do anything with anyone.I just wanna stay home in my bed all day away from everybody.what’s wrong wth me?what should I do?

October 2nd, 2011 at 10:36 pm
i think this is a relationship problem and nothing to do with your birth control
personal experience.
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October 3rd, 2011 at 1:37 am
The two of you don’t coincide anymore. He’s furnished you with his inertia, limiting your motivation and incentive to achieve. You’ve spelled out that neither of you are connecting or reinforcing each other. You’ve already dumped him in your head — that’s why you spend all day in bed. It will take time to get over him, but it’s over, and you know it.
psych prof
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October 3rd, 2011 at 3:37 am
Birth contol can change your attitudes and make you more sensitive to everything. It made me a total basket case. That combined with your boyfriends new annoying traits is likely why you feel like you do. Sounds to me like you need a new man. Your pills didn’t turn him into a lazy stoner… think about it.
psych prof
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