brother help??
my brother has always been a bully. he will find anything he can to harrass me about, and in the past four years, has gotten violent. he will slug me, throw me on the ground, or shove me against a wall. (by the way he is 18, im 13. he weighs 200+ pounds, i weigh under 100.) just today, for instance, we were at my aunts house for easter. i was on the couch talking with my cousin, and he comes up behind me, licks his hands, and rubs them all over me, including through my hair. he is such a creep!!!! so i am mad now, and i am leaving to take a shower, when he shoves me, and as i am trying not to fall and stumbling all around, he sticks his foot out and trips me and my skirt flies up (in front of everyone!!!! even men!!) and my face hits the floor. i was so angry!!!! and hearing there laughs echo through my head made me want to cry!!! i already struggle with depression and anxiety, and here he is, surely not helping!!! i cant help but be so angry and upset!!! how do i cope with these feelings?? and he calls me ugly so often that now, when i look in the mirror, i am so disgusted with myself. he has damaged me emotionally, and i know i can’t go back to the way i was before. my parents dont get it, and when i try to talk to my brother, he either mocks me or gets angry, so please dont say talk to them or a therapist!! please just give me some advice on how to cope with these feelings!!!
October 19th, 2011 at 3:36 pm
It sounds to me like your brother is a degenerate piece of trash. Your parents really should take action if he is abusing you. If he is hurting you a lot, and your parents aren’t helping, then you need to contact someone: a school counselor, or even the police.
If that’s not the biggest issue, you need to just stay away from him. If your parents dont care that he is verbally abusing you, again, i’d say you have a problem. You should see a counselor or a psychologist. This is something more important than a problem that could be answered on yahoo answers.
Hope that helped. =)
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October 25th, 2011 at 6:37 am
Threaten to call the police. An 18 year old is usually considered an adult. He is an adult abusing a minor. Endangering the welfare of a minor would be the charge. You don’t have to have your parents backing you in order to report it. Tell your parents that if they don’t do something then you will take matters into your own hands. At that point if nothing is done then you can either make a call to the police or you can tell someone at school who will do it for you. Your brother will have to leave the house cause he won’t be allowed near you. This advice is only if you are serious about it. You can always just threaten him with it. The choice is yours. But there is no reason you should be beaten in your own home. You don’t need a therapist. You need help. That’s what the police are for. Explain to your parents the length you are willing to take if things don’t instantly change. Shoe on the other foot, your parents wouldn’t put up with being pushed around by him. And he’s liable to do this to other girls too. Take a stand. Do something. Good luck. Hope things work out for you for the good.
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October 30th, 2011 at 9:36 am
wow. he needs a taste of his own medicine. I say keep trying to tell your parents. Show them bruises or any evidence of that he had hurt you.
Tell your brother to stop or else you will call the police or tell someone on him. Kinda threaten him and do it until your ready to tell someone. (Don’t say stuff like ur gonna kill him or hurt him. nothing like that)
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November 3rd, 2011 at 8:36 pm
put some tobasco on his lips when he goes to sleep
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