My friend and I knew each other for about 2 years and in that time we were inseparable. I had a bf when we met but then we broke up, and she never had a boyfriend during our entire friendship.

During the last few months, I started dating a guy we both knew, he was the bartender at the place we always hung out at. We fell in love instantly and I moved in with him (we are still together).

My friend started getting jealous and angry and it seems liked I had two boyfriends and she was just way too controlling. I started noticing things about her that I never did before. She enjoyed seeing other people unhappy, demanding of your time and very spiteful. She had some great qualities too but these ones in particular really started to bother me.

My boyfriend owns a bar and there is a young waitress that works there and I noticed my friend was just HATING on this girl. She was trying to put ideas in my mind that this girl was going to sleep with my boyfriend (she is a bit promiscuous) and all sorts of other ideas. It started causing problems with me and my man. Finally I had it and I finally said something to her that I didn’t want to hear anything more about this girl again and if she didn’t like her to just stay away from her. This is my boyfriend’s place of business and it is disrespectful. She tried weaseling in a few more ideas into my head but I wasn’t having it.

About a week later, she went into my boyfriends bar and started a fight with this girl. That was the straw that broke the camels back.

I feel as though she has no respect for anyone and does whatever she wants. Her favorite phrase was “I don’t care”.

I haven’t spoken to her in about a month and although she has apologize, I ignore her emails. I am not like this normally but I just always feel anxious and on edge when she emails me. She is like a ticking time bomb of emotions.

Am I wrong for ending our friendship?

There was definetly a build up of things other then this happening throughout the months but these are the primary reasons I no longer speak to her. Let me know if I am just being angry and spiteful.