Alright so i confessed to my girl friend what i did, and now i need to know how to get her to trust me again.?
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Well a few days ago I made out with another girl and i decided i had to tell my gf, so i did so today. Amazingly, she was more upset with the girl then with me. She said she was mad ant me, but forgives me and still loves me. I feel like the luckiest guy in the world and i love her so much and i have promised, not only to her but to myself, that i will never do it agin. Now i just want to know how i can get the level of trust back up to where it was before.
September 27th, 2011 at 12:38 pm
just don’t do it or anything like it again. All it takes is time and you not screwing up within that time.
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September 27th, 2011 at 1:36 pm
time heals
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September 27th, 2011 at 2:36 pm
Time heals all wounds.
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September 27th, 2011 at 3:37 pm
Guess what, she never will ever truely trust you like she did. She may act like it, but it will always be in the back of her mind.
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September 27th, 2011 at 4:36 pm
It just takes time, and not messing up again.
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September 27th, 2011 at 6:36 pm
marry her
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September 27th, 2011 at 8:36 pm
Boy! you sound like one alright dude and if I think that (not knowin’ ya obviously) I can see why she thinks you are a really neat guy. (I think you’re kinda cool.) Yeah, girls do tend to blame the other chick when their husband/boyfriend goes cheating around.. (It’s a fact, that’s what girls do.. damned if I know why!) Boy, show her this.. that’ll make her happy. (I would.) Hey, good luck! You got a kool g.f. too. (When ya 2 gettin’ married? she luvs ya, dude.)
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September 27th, 2011 at 10:39 pm
Keep your lips to yourself (and other body parts) and the trust will come back. Although, if she’s not mad at you and she forgave you…then I don’t think any of her trust in you was lost. Just count your blessings that she didn’t kick you to the curb and treat her like a queen!
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September 27th, 2011 at 11:35 pm
Girls dont forgive easily. Even though she said she forgave you she didn’t and most likely its going to ruin ya’lls relationship because shes constantly going to be worried about what your doing! Just sit down and talk to her about it and let her get it all out… Hope i helped you!
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September 28th, 2011 at 1:36 am
If she is as stupid as you describe her, don’t worry about trust. Does this mean if you get the urge again, you will do it because she is apt to blame the other person again and not you? She is an insecure person and you are a jerk. Just my opinion.
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September 28th, 2011 at 3:36 am
dude, women NEVER forget or forgive…
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September 28th, 2011 at 5:36 am
Why did you tell her? If it was just a fling, no harm done, but you better believe she will ALWAYS have it in the back of her mind what you did, and she’ll keep one eye open from this point on.
Don’t do it again and spend some time with her doing different activities.
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September 28th, 2011 at 8:36 am
uuh, thas harsh what u did and personally, i woulda dropped u rite then and there. sry, but hopefully, she won’t ever trust some1 like u again, it hurts cause its happened to me and i put up with it. u never fully learn to trust some1 again until one day u realize what all ur missin out on and then u come to ur senses, but i wouldn’t trust u again.
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September 28th, 2011 at 11:36 am
stay right away from that girl you made out with,and focus all your attention everyday on your girl friend and make sure you go out of your way everyday to let her know that you only love her and only want to be with her,if you do the slightest thing at even looking at another girl it will rock the boat with you and your girl friend,but if you do truley love your girl friend you wont have any hasdsles in showing her shes tyhe only one for you,
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September 28th, 2011 at 1:36 pm
it just takes time
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