I have a female friend who i’ve been cool with for a while. We are like good buddies. Recently she’s been seeing this dude and i think he’s verbally abusive to her which i don’t like. He acts a fool over the smallest things and he calls her names. She’s only been seeing this guy for about 4 months and i KNOW she can do better than this jerk! She says he’s only joking but are you joking if you call your girlfriend a stupid b–ch? Or a fat b–ch? I know this bothers her but she tries to act like it doesn’t. One time she was over his house and she cooked for him and washed the dishes and she told me he went off on her for using to much dish washing liquid and he called her a dumbass. Yet she seems to want to still see this nut and it really bothers me that she would let herself be abused like that. She is a nice looking girl and she is a little overweight and i think that’s why she thinks she has to settle for this scum. I want to slug this guy myself. Any suggestions on what to do here?
I have talked to her about my concerns and she just said she just doesn’t take his comments personally but i know her well, and i know the comments hurt her. I’m tellin you i’m on the verge of knocking this punk the f–k out cause i really don’t like him at all! But i don’t want to ruin my friendship with her over this idiot.