He has basicly left me alone for the three years we went out, he’d leave town, even state, and turn off his phone. He’d never call, and drink constantly. About a month ago I gave him his clothes and things and told him it was over. Well, long story short, he ended up squeezing his way back in, but I don’t love him anymore, I like someone else that I was with when i broke up with him. I told him i don’t love him as much anymore, and that I don’t want to be with him, but he is trying so hard to get my love back. He is around ALL the time, he started cooking dinner everynight, that’s all good and dandy but everything he does nice is like another guilt-trip. I can’t take it! I want to see other people! I know once i give my heart to him, he’ll just rip it like he did before. But I still care about him, he is like the bestest friend i’ve ever had, and I can’t stand to see him sad. I can’t tell him I’m seeing another guy, he’d get drunk and slash my tires or something. What can I do?