Comments on: Why does it strain a relationship to share credit? http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/ listing bots and other evils Tue, 29 May 2012 22:07:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: upside down http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-41559 upside down Mon, 01 Nov 2010 00:37:56 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-41559 Please look up narcissism on google, I think you've found one too.It does not get better with age. His constant need for status symbols and ego boosting crap will certainly bankrupt you. Trust me, I know. Holy Scriptures. Please look up narcissism on google, I think you’ve found one too.It does not get better with age. His constant need for status symbols and ego boosting crap will certainly bankrupt you.

Trust me, I know.

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]]> By: somegal321 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-38117 somegal321 Fri, 15 Oct 2010 22:36:24 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-38117 Me and my fiance just bought a car together. Its in his name but its both of ours. Sounds to me like hes being a control freak. You put the car in your name so that you guys could have a nice vehichle and hes acting like a child that doesnt want to share a toy. I would just let him throw his tempet tantrum and do what you can live with. Dont give into him acting like a big baby though by any means. Holy Scriptures. Me and my fiance just bought a car together. Its in his name but its both of ours. Sounds to me like hes being a control freak. You put the car in your name so that you guys could have a nice vehichle and hes acting like a child that doesnt want to share a toy. I would just let him throw his tempet tantrum and do what you can live with. Dont give into him acting like a big baby though by any means.

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]]> By: ny_spork http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-33549 ny_spork Sat, 25 Sep 2010 05:36:49 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-33549 Sounds like you're not telling the whole story. Holy Scriptures. Sounds like you’re not telling the whole story.

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]]> By: mgibson92804 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-28565 mgibson92804 Sat, 04 Sep 2010 18:37:11 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-28565 on behalf of all men i am sorry..we want what we want when we want it..its a d**n car tell him to try and grow up...we dont do that till we are 40.. but give it a shot...by the way and this sucks..most divorces are over money or other women Holy Scriptures. on behalf of all men i am sorry..we want what we want when we want it..its a d**n car tell him to try and grow up…we dont do that till we are 40.. but give it a shot…by the way and this sucks..most divorces are over money or other women

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]]> By: David http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-24878 David Wed, 18 Aug 2010 15:36:19 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-24878 You BOTH need to see a marriage counselor. You BOTH are responsible for the new car you both bought. He is using the car as a "symbol" of who he is. A lot of guys do that. They drive the biggest and newest cars to say "look at me, I am someone important." That is called low self esteem. A car does not make a person. Unfortunately a lot of guys think it does. Good luck with this one. Holy Scriptures. You BOTH need to see a marriage counselor. You BOTH are responsible for the new car you both bought. He is using the car as a “symbol” of who he is. A lot of guys do that. They drive the biggest and newest cars to say “look at me, I am someone important.” That is called low self esteem. A car does not make a person. Unfortunately a lot of guys think it does.

Good luck with this one.

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]]> By: Same Song Different Verse http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-21520 Same Song Different Verse Wed, 04 Aug 2010 15:36:13 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-21520 If there is any way to do it, you need to sell the nice, new car now before it is not so nice and new. If you are upside down - meaning you owe more than it's worth - bite the bullet now. The situation will only get worse. Even if you wind up stuck paying any difference, you are better off. Consider it the price of a lesson learned. Talk to the bank officer about how to get this accomplished. Your ex will scream bloody murder. Don't be a powerless baby crying that he's not doing you right. Stand up for yourself. Let him be mad. That way, you don't have to be. Take action. Protect yourself. Be strong and weather that storm. After it's done you'll feel great! When it comes to money, you need to learn to be hard. They're nice and sweet when they want something. Once they have it, they don't even remember that you helped them. My ex-husband once explained it to me this way. If a group of women share a pitcher of beer, they make sure that each one gets her fair share. If a group of men share it, they drink as much as they can as fast as they can to make sure they get their fair share. The gallant gentleman taking care of a woman is a fairy tale. Most guys are so used to pigging the beer they forget to use manners when they're sharing with their woman. Holy Scriptures. If there is any way to do it, you need to sell the nice, new car now before it is not so nice and new. If you are upside down – meaning you owe more than it’s worth – bite the bullet now. The situation will only get worse. Even if you wind up stuck paying any difference, you are better off. Consider it the price of a lesson learned.

Talk to the bank officer about how to get this accomplished. Your ex will scream bloody murder. Don’t be a powerless baby crying that he’s not doing you right. Stand up for yourself. Let him be mad. That way, you don’t have to be. Take action. Protect yourself. Be strong and weather that storm. After it’s done you’ll feel great!

When it comes to money, you need to learn to be hard. They’re nice and sweet when they want something. Once they have it, they don’t even remember that you helped them.

My ex-husband once explained it to me this way. If a group of women share a pitcher of beer, they make sure that each one gets her fair share. If a group of men share it, they drink as much as they can as fast as they can to make sure they get their fair share.

The gallant gentleman taking care of a woman is a fairy tale. Most guys are so used to pigging the beer they forget to use manners when they’re sharing with their woman.

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]]> By: Amy http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-18821 Amy Sat, 24 Jul 2010 12:36:13 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-18821 Your paragraph got cut off. I guess, because it was so long. 1st of all: Tell him to kiss your a$$. 2nd of all: Tell him since you are the primary (because you had to use your credit first), then yes, your name will be on the envelope. 3rd of all: Well, I could keep going..I am not sure what your last sentence was...Who should get... & then it cut off. So I am not sure what else you are asking. But as far as the financial debt of the car, since you are the primary & if he stops paying on the car, then you ARE responsible for that debt. If neither one of you pay, then your at risk of collectors coming after you, lender/bank could take you to court, even possibility of garnishment of wages. I know this kind of stuff since I work for a credit counseling agency here in OKC, OK. Good luck girl! Holy Scriptures. Your paragraph got cut off. I guess, because it was so long. 1st of all: Tell him to kiss your a$$. 2nd of all: Tell him since you are the primary (because you had to use your credit first), then yes, your name will be on the envelope. 3rd of all: Well, I could keep going..I am not sure what your last sentence was…Who should get… & then it cut off. So I am not sure what else you are asking. But as far as the financial debt of the car, since you are the primary & if he stops paying on the car, then you ARE responsible for that debt. If neither one of you pay, then your at risk of collectors coming after you, lender/bank could take you to court, even possibility of garnishment of wages. I know this kind of stuff since I work for a credit counseling agency here in OKC, OK. Good luck girl!

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]]> By: snshnbtrflis http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/comment-page-1/#comment-16656 snshnbtrflis Wed, 14 Jul 2010 18:38:16 +0000 http://evilbot.com/flies/why-does-it-strain-a-relationship-to-share-credit/#comment-16656 I say you get the car and tell him to go jump in a lake, to put it mildly. Holy Scriptures. I say you get the car and tell him to go jump in a lake, to put it mildly.

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